Ever wondered what song a rock legend would choose to soundtrack their final farewell? For Bob Weir, the Grateful Dead's iconic guitarist, the answer wasn't just a song; it was a deeply personal reflection on life, legacy, and the enduring power of music. But here's where it gets interesting: his choice might surprise you.
Rock and roll, as a genre, often thrives on the larger-than-life personas of its stars. The spotlight, the swagger, the desire to be remembered – these are all familiar traits. Yet, Weir, despite his pivotal role in the Grateful Dead, always seemed to operate on a different frequency. He wasn't chasing fame; he was chasing the essence of the music itself.
Growing up in the shadow of one of the most unconventional bands of all time, Weir let his music do the talking. He transformed from a young, skinny teen into a rock behemoth, all while keeping a relatively low profile. He avoided the tabloids and the drama, preferring instead to quietly build a vast and rich catalog of live music, always with a smile and a thoughtful gaze. This quiet integrity is something that many rock stars lose sight of as they enter their fifth decade in the limelight.
The Grateful Dead were known for their extensive live performances. With so many songs to choose from, it's surprising that Weir rarely discussed his favorite Grateful Dead song. Most respected rockers avoid labeling tracks as 'favorites.' However, Weir did once reveal the song he'd like played at his funeral, and it may well be considered his favorite.
In 'The Big Interview' with Dan Rather, Weir shared more than just his funeral song. He also discussed his first meeting with Jerry Garcia and his biggest musical influences. Garcia knew how to bring out the best in Weir.
When asked what he wanted to be remembered for, Weir's response was simple and profound: “Individually, for people who want to remember me, to remember on the moment for a song that relates to that moment for them, because that’s all I’m here for.”
So, what song did Weir choose? He recited the opening lyrics of 'Cassidy': “I have seen where the wolf has slept by the silver stream. I can tell by the mark he left you were in his dream.”
Weir continued, reciting the John Perry Barlow-penned lyrics, adding: “Ah, child of countless trees. Ah, child of boundless seas. What you are, what you’re meant to be. Speaks his name, though you were born to me. Cassidy.” He later sang this song to the lyricist himself as Barlow lay on his deathbed.
The song's origins are rooted in real life, inspired by Neal Cassady, a beat poet, and the daughter of a Grateful Dead crew member. The song is also inspired by Barlow’s father.
But here's where it gets controversial... For many Deadheads, the fact that 'Cassidy' is suggested as Weir's favorite is a bit of a curveball. The song first appeared on Weir's solo album, Ace, before the band adopted it. However, all the band members were involved in its creation, making it a Grateful Dead song in every sense. It's one of the band's finest moments, and it is a contender for Weir’s favorite.
What do you think? Is 'Cassidy' a fitting choice for Bob Weir's final song? Does the fact that it originated on his solo album change its significance? Share your thoughts in the comments below!
